Since Including Ashtanga into my exercise regime, I am now more convinced than ever that practising yoga can hugely complement strength training. This totally opposes the common misconception of most men on what Yoga practise is all about as described in my “Perceptions” post, and this is what I endeavour to change.
Since taking up Tirisula’s Yoga teacher training, I feel prepared with tools of knowledge on how I can spread my opinion of Yoga. With the asanas and the other key aspects of Ashtanga such as mental healing and spiritual well-being, I certainly hope to spread the joy of Yoga to various demographics from old to young and from athletic individuals to newcomers.
Yoga is truly a lifelong journey and, in more ways than one. I will always be open to practising other Yoga styles because more knowledge comes with wisdom. And if given the opportunity to take the path as a yoga teacher, the collective wisdom can greatly help to incorporate a range of learning techniques and ability to curate specific focused practices to cater to a wide range of students in whatever their goals are in their asanas and their overall lifestyles.
By this time, I was enjoying my balance of CrossFit exercise and power flow yoga sessions. I found that both disciplines were complementary to each because my practice in both greatly improved coincidentally when combined both into my weekly exercise regime. Once again, I thought to myself that I found the perfect match and it could not get any better.
In early 2019, my fiancé encouraged me to her for a yoga series she had stumbled upon (a story for another post). It was called Ashtanga and at this time, she had been practicing it for about 3 months. The Ashtanga class she attended in Tirisula Yoga challenged her physically more than ever and it was taught expertly by the Guru, Max Sree. I was initially hesitant as she kept describing how well her inversions have improved thanks to the excellent teaching methods at Tirisula. Since my core strength is not my forte and I had never successfully done an inversion pose, I did not think it was the class for me, but I agreed to try it out. Also, because she had also insisted that I watch how awesome she was in the Ashtanga practise
Once again, I found myself feeling the way as I did in my first Power Yoga class, absolutely drenched, muscles sore, and loving the new experience! I had found a new type of practise that I wanted as part of my exercise regime, but Ashtanga was however more than a physical practise. Ashtanga’s focus on physical strength, cardio, coordination along with mental healing and spiritual well-being made it an excellent well-rounded style that I wholesomely enjoyed.
“Yoga is really good for relaxing the muscles”, a fitness trainer said to me. “I’ll do yoga when I’m old and can’t run anymore”, said another fitness enthusiast and “Yoga is too boring for me”. These are the common perceptions of Yoga by most men, and admittedly myself before, who wish only to partake in tough tackling and muscle bulging activities. Anything else, much less Yoga, would be considered as an insult to the manhood of ill-informed egos such as my once myself.
During the life transformation journey chronicled in my “crossroads” post, I had sought out where I belong. I wanted to find something that I would do not for exercise, but as a lifestyle. Something that basically defined me as a person and would stay with me for decades, or even my entire lifetime.
It was however in CrossFit training that I finally found something that I truly enjoyed. Every session was a challenge that pushed me to my physical and mental limits. I knew then that there is nothing else that can be as intense until I attended my first strength training-based yoga session which the studio called “Power Flow”. Due to my ill-advised perception of yoga, it took a lot of convincing by my then girlfriend (now fiancé) to attend the class although I hesitantly agreed eventually. She is an avid asana practitioner and was lightyears ahead of me in her core strength and flexibility, but I had never thought that there was any form of yoga practise that could match the intensity of my CrossFit regime.
At the end of my first strength yoga class, I was absolutely blown away by not only how drenched in sweat I was, but also at how simple yoga poses when combined with transitions and balancing was such a challenge. My perception of Yoga then on, changed completely and forever.
As a middle-aged man in a first world country, survival and longevity in such an environment meant chasing the 5Cs. There I was 3 years ago, advancing in a career path in IT and keeping my clientele and bosses happy, but something didn’t feel quite right in the inside. It could be that my age had finally caught up with me as I fell sick at a steadily increasing frequency, suffered painful gout attacks in between bouts of sickness and caught infections as quickly as I could design the next awesome IT solution at work. My weight was the heaviest I had ever been, and I was panting by just a simple walk up a slope! What compounded the entire situation of my poor lifestyle was when my shining light at the end of the tunnel of any situation, my girlfriend, said, “I won’t marry you if you get sick again for the next one year”.
It was this realization that I knew that I needed a 360-degree change in my lifestyle and habits if I ever wanted to live a life that did not include a doctor’s visit every other weekend. My body was not invincible like it has been for 36 years and I had to take care of it so that it can take care of me. At a relatively young age, I had truly reached a crossroad in my life where my decisions could adversely affect my long-term health.
Fast forward to 3 years later and now doctor visits is a rarity. The gout problem is also under control and most of the excess weight has made way for muscle. And most importantly, I feel mentally stronger. This has been largely due to the introduction of yoga into my life transformation journey which played a huge role in not only improving my fitness with asanas but also helping my mental well-being with the practices that included meditation, pranayama and savasana.
At first I thought Yoga was a very static activity, and a grand-mother’s hobby. Today, after several years of practice I am so impressed by all the tings Yoga has brought to me and how eye opening it was:
- Breathing and meditation exercise helps me to reach peace and empty my mind.
- Physical practice and core Yoga has make my body much stronger and develop my core muscles. (I didn’t even knew it exists)
- Thanks to Yin classes, I have found flexibility in the articulations in a non painful way. (I did ballet for 10 years and flexibility exercise were very painful.) It also opened blocked area such as my chest.
- I have find balance thanks to slow and controlled sun salutations, and practicing gentle flow.
- Through any practice I feel I can connect body and mind consciously.
- Having a regular practice, I have build up self-confidence by seeing tremendous progress.
Today I can’t be thankful enough for all the things Yoga brought me and I hope to learn more and be able to share those benefits with as many as possible.
A year ago, I started questioning my lifestyle and the way I was using my time. I am working in a full-time job for a very demanding boss/Company. I lived far away from my family for the last 6 years, and I feel like 80% of my time and energy is dedicated to my work and to make the Company successful. Holidays are great but too short. At some point I thought, what about my life? Could I plan it and achieve the goals I want to reach, the same way I do it for the Company I work for? I decided to spend time thinking about what I wish for and to apply a strategic plan to reach it. I used the same methodology as I do when I work and decided to keep time to invest in my own life.
After a long introspection, 3 targets came out: live closer to nature, live as an adventurer and own my time.
In the process, I realised how much I love Yoga and how happy I would be to insert it in the new lifestyle I want to embrace. I decided to start a Yoga Teacher Training, so I could have a useful skill to share with people around me, and eventually use it to finance some extras if needed.
Now I am happy that I have identified my needs and that the plan has worked: We (my bf and I) are ready for the next adventure: live on a sailboat for a while, and sail around the world.
Saga said: Yoga is the ability to direct the mind exclusively toward the object and sustain that direction without any distraction.
A practice dedicated to liberation through knowledge and wisdom involves both learnings via mind and beyond the mind. It includes studying texts, thinking about ideas, and ultimately developing personal understanding.
A path of doing good deeds
Yoga of awareness focuses on meditation and on stimulation of the glandular and nervous system to heighten creative potential. It consists of simple poses, pranayama, mantra, music and meditation to teaching relaxation and self-healing.
Ashtanga vinyasa yoga
Synchronise with breathing method called ujjayi breath with a progressive series of postures, so the body produces heat and purifying sweat that detoxifies muscles and organs.
One could start to practise one or many of the yoga to be better humankind.
We lost our true self and let the situation controlled our emotional in the 21-century with self-centred, lack of sympathetic world and an increase in depression in the sociality.
We can cultivate gifts and offer them to the world with yoga practice. To be happy and contented to what we have.
To live our life as an experiment, not afraid of failure and removing ego in the list and promotes self-control and firmness in the precepts.
To imprint the six keywords as a daily practice, Serve, Love, Give, Purify, Meditate and Realise.
To the future of humanity
To practise the five of the eight-limbed path as guidance for inner and external transformation in my life.
1) Yama – gives specific guidelines for dealing with my mind and interact with the world on an ethical and peaceful way.
2) Niyama – help me cultivate orderliness and cleanliness, contentment, commitment, self-study, and finally letting go fo the idea that I have control and surrendering to the universe.
3) Asana – describes how to be happy and peaceful in my body. The third limb focuses on poses that help me become more durable, flexible, and balanced. It benefits me emotionally and spiritually.
4) Pranayama – teaches how to control life force. Practice forcibly exhaling and then holding the breath to diminish obstacles to self-knowledge.
5) Pratyahara – demonstrates a way to withdraw the senses to achieve balance and peace.
Yoga has brought several changes to my life, today I count 3 of them:
Escape from Noise:
Since I started to practice yoga I noticed it offers me an escape from noise in my head and stress. I now have a way to find deep internal peace even for a short while, and stop thinking. It is a great thing to know that I can always escape from stress if I want to.
Yoga allows me to live in a more mindful way, and it specifically make me think more about what I do and the consequences. It slowly leads me to a less meaty and less processed-food diet. I still happen to eat fish or porc occasionally, but I noticed I have no craving for meat like I did before. This is very surprising as I never really questioned my diet and I did not have external influence to make me act this way over the last two years, but now it’s just that I don’t feel like eating meat, so I don’t.
Yoga, such as any activities, has the effect to bring people together. I am thankful that I happened to share my love for yoga with my friend Virginie, and that it leads us to organise a Yoga retreat in Bintan with a bunch of friends. This was a great experience where we learn how to “work” together, and a few other organisational skills. At the end, we had the best WE, with Yoga on the beach, good food from our favourite restaurant and friends around us. I felt that this “Yoga Retreat Organizer” experience was for both of us the beginning of a new”hobby” and moment of great friendship.